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May 16, 2026

These week callers want to know how to welcome the springtime, how to enjoy/not enjoy the Met Gala, hack quiet sex, and, of course, see Lina lose it over exclusionary privileged queers being weird about who’s allowed to use the label. Pull up a chair to the burn sesh (with love). 

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May 2, 2026

A listener is recovering from a religious culture that expected submission from women by default — how, then, can she trust her desire to be submissive in a consensual D/s dynamic? This week we’re talking self trust, healing through kink, and Lina’s deep desire to physically harm this caller’s ex (for legal...


Apr 24, 2026

On this month’s Deep Dive, we’re joined by S.T. Gibson, bestselling author of A Dowry of Blood, Savage Blooms, and more, who also hosts the Metaphysical Girl podcast/substack. Her approach to fantasy is intellectual, informed by her background in theology and deep thought about queerness and our insatiable hungers....


Apr 17, 2026

Ahhh vanilla dating…. Well, it mainly sucks. Jk! Maybe not! Either way, it’s not something you have to do before you get to be kinky. It’s good to know what you want and go after it, and treat each experience as information to be collected along the way. Except for that time Lina went on a vanilla date with a guy...


Apr 10, 2026

What happens in a long-term 24/7 dynamic when you, as a sub, get so fuckin pissed that you just need a MINUTE to collect yourself before resuming your tasks?!?! Lina gets into the communication tools that can hold us and our dynamic in moments of conflict so when you come back from your grumpy space walk the space ship...