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Dec 28, 2024

This Christmas, fear isn’t just for the ballot box. That’s right, a caller wants to know how to negotiate with fear around kinks, edges, and, the scariest monster of all, the terrifying ordeal of being Known by another human being. Also in the intro Lina sets expectations for Babygirl (medium) and encourages all...


Dec 20, 2024

A caller wants to know if straight people are ruining kink, and Lina gets into the history of gentrification in the kink world and how well-meaning straights can use their kink for good. Also a diatribe on how Fake Doms have class-traitor vibes. Sorry it had to be said!!

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Dec 14, 2024

Ever wondered how to drop the news of some of your less mainstream kinks in a relationship? You know… the really head-turning ones that would shock polite company? The ones that keep you up at night googling really specific gear? The ones that pop up in your head even as you’re trying to write the description of...


Dec 8, 2024

Gather ‘round to hear the debauched tales of connection, mutual support, and hot sex contained in the ever problematic social media boogeyman… the Age Gap Relationship!! These crowdsourced stories come from our very own AAS community and will warm your freezing cold heart, ever so briefly slake your unquenchable...


Nov 17, 2024

Looootttttaaaaaa feelings about gender this week, huh folks? We’re discussing the “gender wars,” how you can assist in the political apocalypse, and how to embrace one’s identity as a male submissive.

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