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Jul 3, 2026

This month on the Deep Dive series, we’re graced with the presence of one of London’s preeminent kink queens Miss Gold — Dominatrix, photographer and creator of the iconic One Night parties.. She shares with us how her SW career has influenced her photographic gaze, her specialty in *the kink* most people list as...


Jun 27, 2026

A caller is doing trauma therapy and wants a good lens to explain the value of kink in their healing journey. In response, Lina checks in on how we’re interpreting the word ‘healing’ when it comes to kink (ableism — be gone!), gives some reflections on what kinds of messages our bodies give us in scenes, and...


Jun 22, 2026

In honor of U.K. father’s day we’re getting into ‘Daddy’ as an honorific, whether it always implies age play (Sometimes? Yes? No?) and how nobody has to do anything they don’t want to do but maybe getting curious is what saves us all from the shame monsters.

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Jun 14, 2026

A listener wants to know what to do about their well-meaning but vanilla therapist, and in response Lina earns her gold star Therapist’s Favorite badge by exploring the ins and outs of the therapeutic relationship, how to resource your therapist and yourself, and takes a weirdly polyamory-informed stance on...