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Jan 25, 2026

We’re inventing idioms on the Ask A Sub podcast once again, and this time we’re talking about how to balance a desire for a long-term relationship with sorting out kink compatibility. We also talk about how easy ‘easy’ is supposed to be, prioritizing your priorities, and how to go to the tide pools and come out...


Jan 18, 2026

What if our baggage from the vanilla world could be taken away as easily as selling something on Facebook Marketplace? Until that time, Lina provides a rubric and several measuring sticks (??) for evaluating methods of sharing your stuff with partners that feels interdependent rather than trauma dump-y. 

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Jan 10, 2026

We’re back with another Quick Hits episode! This time we’re talking about how to get slammed in a hockey-coded way, how to tell if your kinky commune is a cult, and how to negotiate a relationship where your boundaries are no boundaries! Join us!

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Jan 2, 2026

We’re back with a shared full episode (no snippet!) with the Sex Ed with DB podcast, talking all about everyone’s favorite smutty gay hockey show, HEATED RIVALRY! Danielle and I discuss the secret sauce that’s making the whole internet so feral for this show, and some practical tips for how to use lubricant when...